Still… When I received an email from blogger buddy Betty from My Friend Betty Says checking in, I figured I should update you on the good news as well. Especially considering the less than good news I had been posting recently regarding cholestasis and friends, I just wanted to reassure you that all is well with me and the babies.
So, some updates:
- The boys are healthy and despite being preemie twins, were able to come home with us.
- I don’t know what’s worse: sleep deprivation the last few weeks of a twin pregnancy (coupled with complications) or the sleep deprivation the first few weeks after the twins are born. I’d put my money on post delivery, but that may be because of selective memory and living in the moment!
- The PUPPPs rash came back slightly, grr. It’s supposed to taper off after a week.
- Labor and delivery deserve their own posts, but in summary, we were apparently the celebrities at the hospital because of the twin vaginal delivery, all my complications, and other complications post delivery.
- Life with two newborns can kick the crap out of any mom. Even with three adults in the house it’s not enough.
- I’m trying to rest as much as I can. I remind myself that I’m also in need of help and recuperating and that I’m not in a place to care for other people.
- My older son is reacting normally, meaning bouts of excitement along with plenty of patience-testing and regression. He’s even very poetic and says that he wants to be a baby that will turn into a bird and fly. It’s amazing to see him kiss his brothers’ toes and at the same time frustrating when he’s all but beng unreasonable.
- Emotionally I’m much better off this time around than my first pregnancy. I suppose it’s because I know what to expect.
Right now my older son is yelling at the top of his head while my husband is maintaining his calm somehow with him. Unbelievably the two babies are sleeping through all of this. Our dishwasher is broken, my back hurts and I’m getting sleep in 25-minute increments.
Still… I’m blessed that my babies were born with nothing wrong with them, their lungs fully developed and having passed all the newborn tests. So life is still good. Even at 3:30 in the morning.
I’ll post again soon enough when sleep allows

Oh my goodness! They are here already?! How did that happen so fast? How many weeks were they? That’s great that despite being preemies they are totally healthy. I’m also impressed that you are able to write such a long post, or any post, at all! God bless you, Momma! May sleep, and lots of other blessings, be with you! And just keep reminding yourself: “It will get easier.” That was my mantra after number 3.
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Thanks Betsy! I had to remind myself that mantra a few nights ago
They were born 35 weeks 5 days. So definitely preemie but they passed all the tests and were able to come home, whew!
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Absolutely brilliant. Congratulations! So happy that you and the boys are happy, healthy and at home.
Thanks lady!
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SO MUCH CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Thanks, Melissa

Nina recently posted..Quick update: The twins are here!
Congratulations! So happy for you and glad everyone is doing well despite the complications.
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Nina recently posted..Quick update: The twins are here!
Nina,
I’m soooo happy for you! Congratulations. I can not imagine what you’re going through right now. Hang in there girl! Prayers for some rest and recuperation for you all during this life-changing transition.
Thanks, Jenny!
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OMG! How exciting! I’m sure it doesn’t seem that way to you, but, it seems like just a couple of weeks ago you were blogging that you were pregnant and now they’re already here? Crazy!
Enjoy the help around the house while it lasts, gets lots of sleep and don’t worry about blogging. We’ll still be here when you come back. The most important thing is staying sane and rested at this point!
Congrats again on the newest additions to you family!
Thanks Yeti that means a lot! It definitely seemed like a shorter pregnancy, I suppose because it technically was, but it zoomed by so much faster than the first one.
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Congratulations… And hang in there! Sending prayers your way. At 40 weeks+ 4 days, I’m hoping to join you in the trenches soon (although without the twin factor).
Thanks Karen! Keep us posted on how you’re doing with your pregnancy. Wow, 40 weeks 4 days… that’s amazing you were able to keep her in that long!
Nina recently posted..Quick update: The twins are here!
So very happy for you and your family! Congratulations!!
Thanks, Tiara! So good to hear from you. Hope all is well with you and the fam.
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Oh Nina, that is good news indeed! We look forward to see their cute little faces. Look after yourself, you are doing good!xx
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Thanks Oana, I appreciate that!
Nina recently posted..Quick update: The twins are here!
Congratulations!!!
I’m so glad you are all doing well. Sorry to hear about all the complications, but so thrilled your twins could come home with you.
And this post confirms my belief that anyone who has twins gets automatic mega-super-parent status. I would have to learn how to parent all over again with twins.
So happy for your not-so-little family, and hope you all get rest soon!
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Thanks, MaryAnne! It definitely is a whole new experience for me. Had it been just one I think it would be less busy, but of course life likes to throw challenges my way lol.
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My twins are 10 months old. The first month was exhausting but it does get easier! Congrats and good luck!!!
Thanks for the reassuring words, Megan! We’re one week in and have our good days and bad, mostly good surprisingly. These boys are so far great and predictable sleepers!
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Yay, congrats Nina!! What a surprise in my inbox! Can’t wait to see pics of your cuties : )
You did it!!!
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Hehe, thanks Kerry!
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Congratulations!
Thanks so much Corie! Hope all is going well with your own pregnancy. Keep us posted!
Nina recently posted..Quick update: The twins are here!
Congratulations!!
I well remember the sleep deprivation, it’s tough.
I hope you can get as many people on board as you need: we decided 1 adult for every child +1 extra for everything else was ideal, but we rarely managed that. And I recommend getting that dishwasher fixed!
Get as much help as you can, get as much sleep as you can.
If it helps, we found that feeding on demand was just too much, as was both being ‘on’ at the same time, so we fed & changed them at 2 hourly intervals, each taking shifts of 6 hours: me 9pm – 3am, & my wife 3am – 9am, & each alternating 9am – 3pm, & 3pm – 9pm.
Good luck!
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Thanks jallie! I wanted to do a set schedule too instead of feed on demand but since they’re so small their doctor recommended to feed on demand to help them continue to gain. Thankfully these boys have a very similar schedule so it sort of works out!
I’m so happy for you! Congrats! Thanks for the update and I hope I didn’t pressure you to write this!!!!!! Just wanted to make sure you were all ok! Tons of love and hugs to you super mom. xoxo
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It’s all your fault Betty lol! Thanks mama and no I’ve been meaning to write something up
They are here, wow, hugest of congratulations to the three of you and well done mamma on bringing them into the world. 35 weeks 5 days is great for twins I thought!
I can only imagine how hectic life must be for you right now. Glad you have some help and are making sure you look after yourself.
Enjoy these newborn hazey days as much as you can.
x Laura
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Thanks and will do Laura! Right now I’m just lounging in bed trying to rest and maybe even nap. Funny how the lazy days just blend into each other with babies.
Oh WOW, congratulations on the birth of your two new boys! How was the birthing experience? I hope you are resting up and enjoying the newborn stage. As you know it does fly by!
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Oh man the birth experience was generally good but also had kinks. The good thing is that it was vaginal with no tears so I seriously don’t feel like I just have birth. But then I also had blood clots that the docs had to remove. Sooo painful. And at one point when I was 9 cm dilated, the freakin’ nurse kept stalling on adding more anesthesia, so I actually felt some contractions which I did not want!
But overall, very good. My doc was pleased at how smoothly everything went otherwise. No scares or emergency surgeries.
A long overdue congratulations! I hope you all are settling in nicely and getting in a few good stretches of sleep

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Thanks, Lynn
Congrats to you too!
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