19 Anxiety Books for Kids

Check out these anxiety books for kids, from going to school, dealing with separation anxiety, making mistakes, or worrying about the world.

Does your child cry in the morning because her stuffed animal isn’t where it was the night before? Is she fun and energetic at home, but completely different in public? Has school drop-off become such a nightmare because she cries the minute you leave?

Many of us have wondered whether our kids’ behaviors are normal, or if they could possibly signal anxiety problems that need to be addressed. And for good reason: while many behaviors are normal, it’s hard when you don’t see them in other kids as often.

Maybe your anxious toddler suddenly won’t sleep at night unless you do the exact ritual every time. She beats herself up when she makes a mistake, or imagines the worst things possible that might happen. You may not even have had more than half a day away from her, simply because she’s inconsolable to be apart.

Anxiety can happen any time and be about everyday worries, but it’s more common with a new environment or people, change of plans, disruption of routine, or a separation from the familiar.

No doubt, anxiety is a real issue, and one you should definitely let her pediatrician know about so you can take appropriate steps, should you need to. But more often than not, her behavior is likely normal and common for kids her age.

Anxiety books for kids

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Still, you can do plenty to ease her anxieties when a worry takes hold, including reading anxiety books for kids.

Reading books and illustrations together about similar issues she feels will reassure her that what she feels is normal. She can put names and labels to her emotions, and can see how other characters might respond to similar circumstances.

And it gives her an opportunity to open up about how she feels. She realizes that she has little to worry about—and the courage to face them if needed.

I compiled my favorite anxiety books for kids that I’ve read to my three kids. After you check out the books, take a look at several tips and resources to help your child’s anxieties:

The Boy with Big, Big Feelings by Britney Winn Lee and Jacob Souva

Wilma Jean The Worry Machine by Julia Cook and Anita Dufalla

Greta and the Dark Cloud by Lana Simkins and Alina Shabelnyk

My Monster and Me: A Reassuring Story about Sharing Worries by Nadiya Hussain and Ella Bailey

Ruby Finds a Worry by Tom Percival

I’m Worried by Michael Ian Black

Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes

Mae’s First Day of School by Kate Berube

First Day Jitters by Julie Danneberg and Judy Love

Owl Babies by Martin Waddell and Patrick Benson

Llama Llama Misses Mama by Anna Dewdney

(Get tips on how to comfort a child who misses a parent.)

When I Miss You by Cornelia Maude Spelman and Kathy Parkinson

The Girl Who Never Made Mistakes by Mark Pett and Gary Rubinstein

It’s Okay to Make Mistakes by Todd Parr

Beautiful Oops! by Barney Saltzberg

What Do You Do with a Problem? by Kobi Yamada and Mac Besom

The Dark by Lemony Snicket and Jon Klassen

Fraidyzoo by Thyra Heder

Every Little Thing by Bob Marley, Cedella Marley, and Vanessa Bantley-Newton

Tips to help ease your child’s anxieties

However age-appropriate and normal your child’s anxious behavior might be, it’s still important to address and talk about her anxious feelings. From social anxiety to facing new things, here are a few best practices to ease her anxieties:

• Talk about proactive things she can do. Is she afraid to approach other kids at school? Role play at home how she might be able to do just that. Encourage her to bring something from home she can share with others. Let her know she can hug her stuffed animal when she’s afraid at night, or practice relaxation techniques to calm herself down.
• Label the emotions. Unlike you and me who know what anxiety feels like, young kids aren’t born with that understanding. They don’t know what to call the strange feelings and sensations that happen in their minds and bodies. By naming and discussing these emotions, your child can now talk about it in more specific ways.
• Have consistent routines. Predictability allows her to spend less time feeling anxious and worried. She doesn’t have to be on the lookout for whether something unpleasant will happen, and can instead use that time to play, relax, and explore. After all, when we know what to expect, we don’t have to wonder what’s next.
• Respond calmly. Your own reactions to situations, including her anxious behaviors, can help ease her anxieties. For instance, stay calm and collected if she happens to injure herself so she doesn’t have panic attacks about every little boo boo she gets.

Get more tips:

• Effective Techniques to Help Your Child’s Separation Anxiety at Night
• 9 Useful Techniques for Dealing with Anxiety in Children
• 11 Children’s Books about Separation Anxiety
• What You Need to Know About Separation Anxiety
• How to Handle Potty Training Poop Anxiety

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