Dealing with meltdowns can be more challenging in front of others. From parties to restaurants, learn what to do during public tantrums. I'd be at a family party, with relatives and friends around, or at the zoo, trying to placate my kiddo as he rolled on the floor. Maybe the scene erupts at a restaurant, as strangers peer our way and wonder what in the world is going on. My kids have tested me in front of others, and no doubt it can be embarrassing. If they're not kicking their legs, they're throwing things or yelling. They don't always act like this, but they've all hit a stage when … [Read more...]

It's tough to enforce rules when kids throw a tantrum. But learn the one big reason parents should stand their ground during these meltdowns. Imagine throwing a tantrum... and getting everything you demanded. You might think this is ideal for your child, but being too lenient can often lead to adverse consequences. Giving in all the time may lead her to believe that negative actions are the way to get anything. She learns that throwing a fit means mom and dad break down and oblige. So, she'll use this method more often than not to get what she wants. The thing is, kids are incapable … [Read more...]

Consequences for kids don't always work. See common mistakes parents make and how to give consequences to stop your child's bad behavior. We've all felt that panic: trying to come up with a consequence fit for the behavior. In trying to turn this chaos into a teachable moment, you scanned your brain for a good enough consequence. One that would get your child to stop, to convince her this is serious, and that you've had it with her antics. You know, one that would teach her a lesson. Consequences have even become common language, from the "time out" for the toddler to the teen … [Read more...]

Struggling with your child's tantrums? Get a cheat sheet guide to handling tantrums and learn what to do when they happen. I felt helpless. My son had been throwing a tantrum for over an hour. Nothing worked. I tried soothing him to no avail, and completely ignoring him didn't do the trick, either. It seemed like I'd leave every outing carrying a wailing toddler, making my quick getaway. We've all been there. The defiance, the crying-so-hard-they-can't-breathe, the flailing of the arms and legs. These moments happen in the privacy of our homes or under the glaring eyes of others in … [Read more...]