Long before my twins were born, I anticipated all the challenges: How do I feed them at the same time? What do I do if they're both crying? And one of the worries I was already anxious about was, How in the world do I manage toddler twins? Because we all know that the toddler stage isn't exactly smooth sailing, and that's just with one toddler. Personally, I much prefer the toddler stage over the newborn one, tantrums and all (sleep deprivation and I don't get along). But after three kids, two of them twins, I also know it doesn't always bring out the best in me. What makes the … [Read more...]
You Know You’re a Twin Mom When…
Being a mom of twins is no easy task! Take a look at several things only a twin mom would understand, from a twin pregnancy to managing two toddlers. "I have good news..." my doctor began during my first sonogram. "...and even better news: you're having twins!" As difficult as the first seven weeks of my pregnancy had been, I never thought it was because I was carrying two. I figured it was the second pregnancy, or maybe I was carrying a girl this time. But the minute she said those words, I was thrust into life with twins. Suddenly I wasn't a "regular" singleton mom, nor would I have … [Read more...]
Secrets to Surviving Twins in the Newborn Months
Feeling overwhelmed with twins? Surviving twins is hard, but not impossible! Discover the secrets to raising twin babies without losing your mind. Adjusting to motherhood had been hard for me as a first-time mom. So much so that it had taken a while—two and a half years—before I was open to adding another child to the mix. I figured my son was "easier" now, so even with a newborn, I felt better able to manage. I'd be a second-time mom, after all. Experienced. So when I learned that my second pregnancy was not in fact one, but two babies, I just about had a meltdown. I couldn't wrap my … [Read more...]
Preparing for Twins: A Checklist of Everything You Need to Do
Overwhelmed with all the things you have to do to get ready for your twins? Get my preparing for twins checklist so you don't overlook important tasks. Everything moves pretty quickly in a twin pregnancy, don't you think? For one thing, we only find out later that we're having twins. While I knew I was pregnant for a few weeks, I didn't realize I was carrying two until my first doctor's appointment confirmed it. And second, a twin delivery usually comes sooner than a singleton one. I was given only until 38 weeks to deliver, and even then, still gave birth a few weeks earlier. Other … [Read more...]
What to Do when You’re in Labor with Twins
Learn what to do when you're in labor with twins, from spotting the signs and symptoms, to laboring at home before delivery time. Includes a worksheet! If only we knew exactly when and how labor with twins will happen. I sure didn't. I knew having twins meant they were less predictable, and that the babies could come at any time. But when my labor started, I didn't jump up and rush to the hospital. In fact, I didn't even know I was in labor for a while. It was 11pm and I couldn't sleep, as usual. But instead of the typical discomfort or even the pregnancy itching I had developed, I … [Read more...]
How to Get Your Twins to Stop Fighting
Frustrated with your twins fighting all the time, especially when nothing seems to work? Learn the essential habits that will encourage them to get along. First it was Spiderman. Then Batman. This last time, it was Superman. Each new toy my husband gave our twins became the Hot Item they had to fight over. Never mind that they also received other superheroes—they always wanted what the other person had. While newborn twins are hard, the toddler and preschool years with twins can be just as challenging, especially when they fight all the time. It's enough to make any mom feel like … [Read more...]
How to Potty Train Twins: The Ultimate Guide
Twin parents, ready to potty train? Learn all about potty training twins, from when to start, how to prepare, and what to do when one twin isn't ready. Few things felt as glorious as the day I was finally able to toss the changing pad and covers away for good. My twins no longer wear diapers during the day. I can't even remember the last time I bought baby wipes. My twins are officially potty trained. But the process is a little more complex. You may have your own questions about potty training twins as well. When do you start? How do you know they're ready? What do you do if one … [Read more...]
What to Do when Only One Twin Is Ready to Drop a Nap
You always hear about how twins should be on the same schedule, from eating to sleeping. Synchronizing their activities makes the day more organized, especially if you're alone. But what do you do when you notice one twin is ready to drop a nap, but the other isn't? Baby A might take forever to nap or flat out refuses, while Baby B is fast asleep. If you accommodate Baby A's wishes to stay awake, Baby B then has a meltdown and loses it without his coveted nap. When only one twin is ready to drop a nap All babies are different, and nothing like having twins makes this clearer. You may … [Read more...]
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