Learn the warning signs of raising narcissistic children as well as tips on how to avoid a self-centric generation. "Look at me—I'm unique!" said one of the kids' picture books, whose topic is all about liking oneself. This normally wouldn't catch my attention, except I started to wonder whether extreme praise can lead to narcissism. Now, building self-worth isn't the same as promoting narcissism, nor should we raise kids to be "people pleasers." They should be reminded how one-of-a-kind they are in this world, and the special talents only they can deliver. We also want to boost their … [Read more...]

It's hard on everyone when we lose our tempers. See if you can relate to these unfair reasons we get mad at kids, and how to stop. I've regretted the times I've lost my temper with my kids, but more so when I yelled for unfair reasons. What do I mean by "unfair"? Of course, at the end of the day, angry outbursts aren't justified regardless of reason. But it's even more heartbreaking when we take our frustration out on our kids when they had little to do with what we're angry about. Think back to recent episodes when you yelled at your kids. Maybe they were making a ruckus right … [Read more...]

Want to remain close to your kids well into their adulthood? Here's how to build a close relationship with your child, starting now. Many years from now, we'll stop doing everything for our kids. They'll learn to follow their own paths and decisions, only turning to us for advice or support. They'll be teens and adults, and the majority of our parenting duties would have finished. In those years, what will your relationship become? And is there a way to create a close bond with your child now that extends into her adulthood? I'd like to think so. We can't choose our kids, their … [Read more...]