One of the best ways to streamline your day (and catch some rest) is to put both babies on the same schedule. If one baby wakes up hungry, feed both of them, even if it means waking a sleeping baby. Put them down to nap at the same time. And bathe them one right after the other.
Tandem nurse or bottle feed simultaneously
Most people assume it’s impossible or have never even heard of tandem feeding (“Wait—you’re breastfeeding both of them? At the same time?” are common reactions I get when I’m with family). Considering that newborns normally nurse for 20+ minutes and are awake sometimes only for an hour, mastering tandem feeding will help you make the most of your time.
You’ll want to purchase a nursing pillow catered to twins (I use My Brest Friend Twin Deluxe) so that you can comfortable place both babies on the pillow and keep your hands free. Start with the baby with the more difficult latch. If one finishes before the other, burp him by either holding him up to your shoulder or sitting him on the pillow.
As with most new experiences, practice makes perfect. For the longest time, I wasn’t able to burp the babies on my own and would have to hand one to someone else. But over time I was able to handle the entire feeding—from placing them on the nursing pillow to finally burping them—all on my own. Plus, I couldn’t stand feeding one while the other was wailing his head off. With tandem feeding, I know they’re both nursing and taken care of.
Feeding babies with bottles can be done in tandem as well. Once your babies have more control over their necks, place them in bouncers next to each other so that you can hold both their bottles.
Run errands with the twins in a stroller
You may not be able to buy cartloads at the grocery, but running errands with a stroller is a great way to get stuff done, entertain the babies and even squeeze some exercise into your day. Whether you’re walking to the nearby bank or driving to the mall, taking the twins out on errands can save time as well as get you out of the house.
This may seem daunting, especially when you double the chances that a baby will start crying. You may want to avoid (or have a quick exit from) places like the library and stick to places that are fairly loud and won’t mind you soothing a fussy baby. And just remember: there’s two of them, and only one of you.
Use baby gear like swings, bouncers, mobiles and baby carriers
I have a love/hate relationship with swings and baby carriers because on one hand, you don’t want your babies to get used to them so much that they can’t sleep in anything but, yet on the other hand, they work. If the babies have a difficult time sleeping in their bassinets or cribs, consider placing them in a swing, baby carriers or wraps. They’ll eventually outgrow the gear at some point, whether on their own or through sleep training, so use them now when you most need them.
Bouncers and mobiles are other useful items to keep your little ones occupied so that you have time to do quick tasks around the house. They’re also great for entertaining one baby while you tend to the other such as alternating diaper changes.
Accept and get help, especially during the first few weeks
Asking for help is common even with singleton babies, but much more necessary when it comes to twins. If someone can spend a few weeks at your home, all the better. You’ll need help soothing and caring for the babies, tending to your other kids, preparing meals and maintaining your house (such as washing dishes or throwing out the trash). Even if helpers can only come on the weekends, you could still ask them to bring meals, buy your groceries, or play with the babies while you catch a break.
Almost every twin mom I spoke with says that getting help is crucial, especially in the first few weeks and months. You’ll never feel more outnumbered than during those challenging moments, so don’t be shy about asking for or even hiring help.
As a mom who not only has twins but a three-year-old to care for, trust me when I say that you can definitely do this. From taking a shower to going for a walk around the block, you’ll slowly but surely be able to get stuff done, even while taking care of your twins.
What are some of the best ways you get stuff done—twins or singleton babies?